Every week we are bombarded with yet another new superhero, caped or masked, leotarded or graphite-enshrouded.
Movie and TV screens are filled to the brim with “superheroes”… imaginary beings that save the world… save civilization, save the universe.
Superheroes aren’t really my jam, aside from the quirky Deadpool, who is the weirdest, anti-hero hero. Anyone who makes me belly laugh is inducted into my hero club.
But I prefer to spend my mindspace real estate on real-life, often “minor” heroes.
Since Ukraine has been under attack, I find myself wholly intrigued and mesmerized by Volodymyr Zelensky, a totally unexpected, shockingly surprising hero. A real-life capeless hero.
I know from reading countless Facebook posts over the years that most of us are inspired and lifted by the day-to-day real-life heroes out there. We revere heroes.
The Huffington Posts posits that there are 6 kinds of real-life heroes…. maybe there are more, I don’t know.
- The Warrior Hero.
- The Protector Hero.
- The Healer Hero.
- The Master Hero.
- The Leader Hero.
- The Teacher Hero.
There’s a pretty good chance that you’re one of these. I hope so. You may not even realize it.
There’s a common thread running through these real-life heroes, it’s called…
INSPIRATION
They show us what we can attempt to be as humans and inspire us to become better versions of ourselves. Minor heroes.
My Walter Mitty inner-persona sees myself aspiring to become a saviour of the downtrodden, a visionary to those who need inspiration and hope.
It’s largely a mirage, but an aspiration nonetheless. It takes aspiration to make inspiration to take action.
Real heroes are the people who do little or large things, unexpected things, everyday things, that leave the world around them better or preserve lives.
The best heroes to me are often normal people who scarcely notice how extraordinary they are, often overlooking their contributions because they were never presented with an official cape by the mayor of Gotham City. Humility and heroism are twin virtues.
Becoming a hero is often not a choice, it’s thrust upon us and we must decide if we can or will surmount our personal worries and fears.
Volodymyr Zelensky is the latest, greatest example. There are countless others, in Ukraine and all around the globe, that we never hear about who are saving lives, or making lives better with what they do for little or no recognition.
Big wars make minor heroes into major heroes (and minor villains into major villains)… small people of all genders and ethnicities and belief systems that rise to the occasion.
Zelensky may – I hope – triumph in his unasked-for quest, or, he may perish and become a martyr, a chapter in a history book like Martin Luther King or Ghandi.
There are Ukrainian heroes, Afghan heroes, Syrian heroes, Jewish, Atheist, Baha’i, Muslim, and Christian heroes… even Russian heroes. Far off and right next-door heroes.
I chop vegetables and make sandwiches a few days a month alongside a longtime friend, a lady at the soup kitchen who birthed 5 kids, two with Cystic Fibrosis. Tough stuff, yes?
Today, retired and all her kids grown: one child has died, one has had a double-lung transplant, another has lupus and heart problems, her husband had a heart attack last year.
Can life get any more difficult for one person? Of course it can, but it’s the fact that she courageously shoulders this life without public complaint, with a cheery smile, and a desire to help others that makes her a hero in my view. A minor hero but a hero still.
Not everyone has to become a big hero. The world needs a major hero from time to time… a Churchill, a Mother Teresa, a Zelensky.
But even more, the world needs an army of minor heroes, or people making daily attempts to make the world a better place with unselfish acts.
And if you look inside yourself, there’s probably a hero buried there too.
I’ll never be a big hero, never a Zelensky, never a Churchill, Mother Teresa, Rosa Parks, Ghandi, or Dalai Lama… the kind of hero who forgoes all rational grasp-holds of safety. I’m merely “Yoda-trying” to find my inner minor hero.
I’ll leave you today with just a few ideas about how you can sew your own cape (maybe don’t squeeze into the leotard, OK?) and become a minor hero in your world…
- Perform random acts of kindness.
- Shovelling your neighbour’s snowy driveway for them.
- Helping to pay a student’s tuition.
- Buying lunch for a depressed friend.
- Buying groceries for someone in need.
- Taking an elderly neighbour to an appointment.
- Volunteer your time.
- Help build houses with Habitat for Humanity for low-income families.
- Join a gleaner’s group.
- Get involved with your neighbourhood clean-up committee or watch group.
- You don’t always have to volunteer in an official way. You can offer to help a friend move or give up some time to listen when a family member is in need of emotional support.
- Use small gestures.
- Even offering someone kind words can help you grow as a hero. Smile and say thank you to service workers.
- Bring a friend a fresh flower.
- Write your mail person a thank you note.
- Offer your seat on the bus or subway to a pregnant woman, an elderly person, or someone with a cane or crutches.
- Send a family member a surprise email or text telling them something they did in the past that made you feel good.
- Promote the Good rather than Oppose the Bad
- Attend a “pro” rally instead of an anti-demonstration. Pro-peace, pro-immigrant, pro-BLM or pro-LGBTQ.
- The most successful, heroic people focus on the positive.
- Volunteer Your Treasure
- Donate a portion of your income (or blood) to help others – people, animals, projects in need.
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