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Today I’m happy to share with you another guest post from Jim Ferguson.

When Jim sent this post to me, I frankly hesitated. Hmmmm… this doesn’t sound like me.

As you likely know, I profess myself as an atheist. Jim (as you may know, and if not, will soon find out) is a devout Baha’i adherent.

Religiously, we are 2 trains on separate tracks. And yet.

While I don’t confess to a belief in God, I do admire and respect many many of the teachings of the various religions. And I respect Jim’s beliefs and understanding of religious texts and philosophies.

Many of you who read this post today share a religious commonality with Jim. And others may not.

Making the world a better place cries for understanding each other. A willingness to listen, and if we don’t totally agree on everything, we know that humans are one, and all have the same right to share this world, so long as we cause no harm to another.

I think Jim’s final paragraph is a lovely summary.

So without further delay, here’s Jim:

Greetings MOTF-ers, tis I, Jim Ferguson, back for another rendition of guest blogger for Larry.

I am, as usual, happy to give the lad a break from the mental strain of coming up with blog topics every week or two. Okeedokee…let’s get at it!

Have you ever come across the old bumper sticker “WWJD”?

It was popular a couple of decades ago as people wondered “What Would Jesus Do” (WWJD) in this situation or that situation!

I’ve been pondering this myself lately as I have witnessed the forces of societal decay and disintegration manifesting themselves before my very eyes. Maybe you are observing it too.

It is hard to be blind to the fast decline setting in with daily accounts of war, rumours of war, mass shootings, poverty, political unrest and corruption, racial prejudice, religious intolerance, crime…need I go on?

Let me state up front that I am not a card-carrying Christian BUT as a member of the Baha’i Faith, I love and revere Christ and His teachings.

I could not be a Baha’i without acknowledging the validity of Christ and Christianity as I acknowledge the validity of the other great spiritual Teachers to humanity-Krishna (Hinduism), Buddha (Buddhism), Zoroaster (Zoroastrianism), Abraham and Moses (Judaism), Muhammad (Islam), and Indigenous spiritual Teachers such as Deganawida (Iroquois Confederacy), among others.

Baha’is believe that the Creator has sent a new Prophet to humanity for this age-Baha’u’llah, who teaches that there is only one God and that all the great religions come from one God and all humanity are members of one family. That’s another story for another blog.

I consider myself a student of religion having studied the history and spiritual teachings of various religions since childhood.

The other day as I was pondering and meditating on the destructive and negative forces plaguing humanity and what the solutions were to the myriad problems confronting humanity, I found myself thinking of that bumper sticker and wondering what Jesus had said to humanity in His teachings. What did He tell humanity to do or how to live that could contribute to the betterment of our world? 

I decided to go to the Bible and read only the red-letter words as they are the words of Christ.

My conclusion has been and remains that Jesus brought many teachings for the spiritual upliftment of the individual and of society. If one ignores the man-made interpretations attached to the religion today and goes directly to the red words one can find gems that can inspire goodness in the individual which can then translate into goodness in society at large.

Here is an answer to “WWJD”.

I am providing a sample of His teachings for you but have a more extensive list if anyone wants it. This sampling focuses on basic qualities that I feel relate to making the world a better place. Also…I am not offering any interpretation. I leave that up to you in your personal meditations. 

So…” WWJD”? He would tell you/remind you:

Not to live by bread alone but “by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.” Matt 4:4

To worship “the Lord your God, and Him only you shall serve.” Matt 4:10

That: Matt 5:3-10

-the poor in spirit are blessed “theirs is the kingdom of heaven”

-those who mourn are blessed “they shall be comforted”

-the meek are blessed “they shall inherit the earth”

-those who hunger and search for righteousness are blessed “they shall be filled”

-the merciful are blessed “they shall obtain mercy”

-the pure in heart are blessed “they shall see God”

-the peacemakers are blessed ”they shall be called the sons of God”

-those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake are blessed ”theirs is the kingdom of heaven”

That “You are the light of the world… Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.” Matt. 5: 14-16

That “whoever therefore breaks one of the least of the commandments and teaches men so, shall be called the least in the kingdom of heaven but whoever does and teaches them, he shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven” Matt. 5: 19

That “unless your righteousness exceeds the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees, you will by no means enter the kingdom of heaven.” Matt. 5: 20

That “whoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgement. And whoever says to his brother “Raca” (worthless) shall be in danger of the council. But whoever says, “you fool” shall be in danger of hell fire.” Matt. 5: 22

To hold true to your word, “But let your yes be yes, and your no, no. For whatever is more than these is from the evil one” Matt. 5: 37

To turn the other cheek, “But I tell you not to resist an evil person. But whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also” Matt: 5: 39

“And whoever compels you to go one mile, go with him two” Matt. 5: 41

To “give to him who asks you and do not turn away those who want to borrow from you.” Matt. 5: 42

To “love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven…” Matt. 5: 44-48

Not to “do your charitable deeds before men, to be seen by them. Otherwise, you have no reward from your Father in heaven. Therefore, when you do a charitable deed, do not sound a trumpet before you as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory from men…But when you do a charitable deed, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, that your charitable deed may be in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will Himself reward you openly” Matt. 6:1-4

To say the Lord’s Prayer Matt. 6: 9-13

That “if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” Matt. 6: 14-15

That “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” Matt. 6: 19-21

That “The lamp of the body is the eye. If therefore your eye is good, your whole body will be full of light. But if your eye is bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If therefore the light that is in you is darkness, how great is that darkness” Matt. 6: 22-23

That you cannot serve both God and material wealth and to not worry about worldly affections. Matt. 6: 24-34

“Judge not, that you be not judged. For with what judgement you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you” Matt. 7: 1-2

Not to look at the sins of others when you yourself are a sinner. “And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but consider not the beam that is in thine own eye?…Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye” Matt. 7: 3-5

That “whatever you want men to do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.” Matt. 7: 12

That whoever hears His teachings and practices them “I will liken him to a wise man who built his house on the rock: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it did not fall, for it was founded on the rock. But everyone who hears these sayings of Mine, and does not do them, will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it fell. And great was its fall.” Matt. 7: 24-27

That “Every kingdom divided against itself is brought to desolation, and every city or house divided against itself will not stand.” Matt. 12: 25

That “A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good things, and an evil man out of the evil treasure brings forth evil things.” Matt. 12: 35

“For what profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul? Or what will a man give in exchange for his soul” Matt. 16: 26-28

That “if you have faith…nothing will be impossible for you” Matt. 17: 20

To be humble: “Therefore whoever humbles himself as this little child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” Matt. 18: 4

Not to offend: “Woe to the world because of offenses! For offenses must come, but woe to that man by whom the offense comes!” Matt. 18: 7

To forgive your brother his trespasses: “So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses.” Matt. 18: 35

Not to murder, not to commit adultery, not to steal, not to bear false witness, to honor father and mother, and love your neighbor as yourself. Matt. 19: 18-19

How to be perfect: “If you want to be perfect, go, sell what you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me.” Matt. 19: 21

To “love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.” Matt. 22: 37-40

To “have peace with one another.” Mark 9:49

Well…there you have it.

A sample of the teachings of Christ on the nature of peace, humility, forgiveness of others, righteousness, turning the other cheek, meekness, not being judgmental, giving to the poor, living a spiritual life, etc.

I conclude that if the world demonstrated more of these qualities, we would be living in a better world. One does not need to be a Christian to appreciate the teachings brought to humanity by Christ and to realize they are good medicine for what ails the world. Next up…WWBD? (What would Buddha do, or, What would Baha’u’llah do? We could do a whole series…😊)

Peace,

Jim Ferguson

8 Ways To Tell When COVID Has Left The Building

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Magic is in the air…

… which I suppose is a nice change from floating viral particles.

Of course it doesn’t take a lot of calling on Mr. GOOGLE, or Alexa, or Siri, to realize that those coronavirus splinters and scraps are pretty much as prevalent as ever… but…

Now, we have rosy COVID-resistant glasses that prevent us from seeing it anymore. It’s like we’re wearing 100-SPF COVID-screen.

Life, at least in my little valley enclave in British Columbia has mystically returned to the long ago era of BC (Before COVID).

Sure, there are still some remnants of those darker prehistoric days… a few plexiglass barriers, an occasional mask-wearer, hand sanitizer inside store entrances.

But these are becoming museum pieces of a bygone era… so quickly forgotten.

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Today I’ll support my case with some examples of the end of COVID as we have come to know and love it.

8 Ways I know that COVID fear is pretty much over?

  1. MASKS? Those things we wore to remind us of the beauty of a person’s eyes? Gone Girl!
  2. Trump is back!! Yes, the more virulent Orange virus is back on top of the headlines, displacing the skyrocketing charts of dead and dying from our screens, with dread and lying. GILEAD redux?
  3. Work from home? Pajama Fridays? Peeing during ZOOM meetings? Finito! Elon Musk says get back to the office or find another job.
  4. We can visit the elderly, sick, and dying in their homes and hospital/care-home bedrooms in place of a cellphone screen or glass-plate window. Death, a normally lonely experience (is anything more lonely than leaving this planet when everyone else is staying behind?) is just a tiny bit less frightening when you have a hand to hold while taking your last breath.
  5. Marriages, anniversaries, birthdays, concerts, movies, reunions, Funerals(!)… celebrations and drunk-fests/wakes of all sorts are back on.
  6. All the Vaccine clinics that popped up everywhere have disappeared like Blockbuster movie rental stores. We’re back to buying our needles on street corners again.
  7. Airports and airplanes and trains have returned with a vengeance to their pre-COVID set of crowds and frustrations, delays and security measures.
  8. Lately, the JEOPARDY game show has had a Canadian contestant on their Los Angeles-based show almost once a week. For 2 years it was like Canada was nuked off the map. Everybody deserves a CANUCK in their life, eh?

Mattea Roach, Toronto Jeopardy Champion!

And, speaking of all of those travel frustrations, I’m going to test the exploration waters with a sojourn for a few weeks to the Emerald Isle, the Land of Erin.. OK… Ireland and Northern Ireland.

I’ll try to surface from my Irish Whisky haze long enough to check in with you at some point along the backroads.

In the meantime friends, I have my trusty… and trusted… friend, Jim Ferguson to carry the Man On The Fringe flag for a post or two while I sip Guinness and kiss the Blarney Stone.

And, as BC Provincial Health Officer Dr. Bonnie Henry said at the end of her daily updates for almost 2 years of pandemic: “be kind, be calm, be safe“.

Good words to live by, with or without COVID.

Ireland Adopts Canada?

The Upside Down Devil On My Shoulder

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D‘oh… I woke up last night with a Pessimist Devil on my shoulder.

WTH? Where did YOU come from?

I’ve had an Optimist Angel on my other shoulder for a long time, but this new little Satan is gnawing at me… *SHOO!*

I’m living in a world of confusion… I’m more befuddled today than I’ve been in my entire dinosaur-aged life.

More befuddled than when I first saw race walkers in the Olympics and wondered… “WHY?” Are they racing to the bathroom but don’t want to run and cause an explosion?

More befuddled than a peephole placed on the edge of a glass door.

More befuddled than a golf ball decked out with camouflage paint.

I want to be an optimist.

I really really REALLY want to be an optimist.

I look at major components of our world and see a HUGE wave of historic hope and cheer.

There are a number of reputable reports telling us that humans are living a far better and safer life than they have in our entire history. What’s not to love? Optimists should be jumping for joy. And yet… it’s hard not to see…

… the Upside Down (see Stranger Things for explanation) in our world… and it’s becoming more and more evident in the past 5-10 years that this alternate dimension is inhospitable to humans and life of all kinds, and should be avoided at all costs.

Here’s the Upside Down shortlist:

Greenhouse gases and climate change

nuclear weapons at the ready in the trigger fingers of demented despots

super-killer guns in kids’ cereal boxes *only a slight exaggeration*

huge swaths of people with “science hatred”

widespread disbelief in clear and obvious facts

xenophobia

expanding wealth gap

viruses

inflation

healthcare inadequacy

Bill Gates

So, is Bill wrong?

Longer-term I don’t think so.

These concerns and worries I’m experiencing are like a pesky mosquito that hums around me in my bedroom darkness… it irritates incessantly but is astonishingly resistant to the “squish”.

I know that modern technology, ubiquitous internet, and social networks are both a panacea and deadly virus wrapped tightly in a single package… we love all the “wonder drug” good they bring us, the angelic positives… communication and education at our fingertips. *Why aren’t you TikTok’ing to me?*

But the devilish negatives, the “Monkeypox” side effects are pressing a colossal thumb on the weigh scales of civilization. Our degrees of humanity are becoming less human and more neanderthal.

Who would have predicted 25 years ago that with greater education, we’d become more stupid in many ways?

As worried as I might seem, I know that humanity (like investments) doesn’t follow a straight-line upwards graph of human progress and happiness. There are tumultuous and painful bumps along the road. Dreadful storms need to be weathered to reach Shangri-La.

The antidote to my pint-sized “shoulder demon”, and my optimistic message to you and me both in these uncertain times, is to take a deep yoga breath and reflect on the “angelic” positives.

Here are just 8 global “angels” to brighten the world:

OK… while it’s pretty clear that the manure of life will never smell like roses…

… we can remind ourselves of the little boy who, upon receiving a pile of horsesh*t for his birthday, immediately began digging through it with glee and excitement… “yippee, there’s got to be a pony in here somewhere!“”

THE MAP OF LIFE – The Song

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Introspection, retrospection,

genuflection, crunch

Ice cream soda, Lemonade punch

Tell me the name, Of my honey-bunch

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Yes, go back, way back, to the playground of your youth… to the skipping rope of life.

It can be fun to reflect on the childish, gigglish stuff we did as kids.

Those carefree summer days with popsicles and ice cream trucks, swings and teeter-totters (see-saws if you prefer), baseball bats and Barbies, Slinkys and Yo-Yo’s.

Those early days ever so slowly morph into teenage, then young adult, perhaps parenting years… speeding up into late adulthood and seniorhood… racing into elderly dawns… following the map of life.

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Roads were made for journeys, not destinations.” – Confucius

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The GPS that directs us is largely in our hands to determine.

A million choices, a billion decisions and forks in the road – the expected and unexpected – the exhilarating and tragic – that guide us forward.

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Travel [Life] isn’t always pretty. It isn’t always comfortable. Sometimes it hurts, it even breaks your heart. But that’s okay. The journey changes you; it should change you. It leaves marks on your memory, on your consciousness, on your heart, and on your body. You take something with you. Hopefully, you leave something good behind.” – Anthony Bourdain

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Today, in my quest forward as a lyricist and songwriter, I’ve taken the metaphor of life as a journey and a map, a series of roads and crossroads to travel, taking us on the wild and mysterious ride of our existence.

We spend our days looking forwards and backwards, looking inwards. Sometimes we coast along smoothly, contentedly… sometimes we feel empty, confused, and lost.

From a songwriting perspective, a major contributor to the emotional push and pull of a song is the tune and rhythm that guides the words. The “prosody” effect is critical to the enjoyment of a song.

Musically, I can hear this song set in a similar tempo and “drive” as Dire Strait’s Sultans of Swing… feel the rhythm of the road beneath you as you motor along…

So buckle yourself in and let’s go for a drive…

The Map of Life

by Larry Green

Drive the highways
drive the backroads
fill my trunk with
whatever it holds
Open the glovebox 
pull out the map
savour spring's lilacs
the map of my life

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red light, yellow light, green light, go
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The asphalt is strewn
sometimes it's clear
look over the fields
scan all I revered
Open the windows
and look in the mirror
survey the map
the map of my life
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red light, yellow light, green light, go
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CHORUS

Pull out the pages
let the wind tease my hair
Lucky souls, lovers and friends
dribbled through the ages
stain the map of many bends
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red light, yellow light, green light, go
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Now where are the rivers,
the crossroads, the balladeers
the accidents and lawgivers
green lights and the quitters
Peer ahead through the windshield
thru mornings thru sunsets
for the lights of the diner
shining on the map of my life
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red light, yellow light, green light, go

The Wonderful Worries of Life

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I should be worried about this post. Just kidding, I’m not.

I’ve been writing these weekly posts for 10 years this month, 518 blog entries, half a million words, 5 good-sized novels…

I love that you allow me to share my views and inner thoughts, that you agree or disagree with me, smile or grimace at my words…

… so why would I worry now? Well…

I was a nervous child.

Like my mother, I worried. Mom was a champion worrier. Mom could fret with the best.

I’ll likely never measure up to my mother’s worry quotient… and this is a good thing. I’m sure that worrying was one contributing factor to her early demise.

There are worries and there are WORRIES.

We spend a large part of our lives endeavouring to split the hairs of distinction between those two that allows us to sleep at night.

Worrying is a protective defence mechanism that is useful, but only to a point.

Worry is like a hammer that can help build something beautiful in our lives or the same tool with which we *oh f&%k* whack our thumb.

When procrastination settles in, worrying can be positively motivating so that we reach our goals. Worrying can be useful when something needs to be done to protect our physical or mental wellbeing. As long as worry begets action, I’m on board.

But we need to protect ourselves against over-thinking and over-worrying when it prevents us from living a life that leaves us fulfilled and enthusiastic about where we’ve been, what we’ve done, and where we’re headed.

As a kid:

• I worried and obsessed about classroom presentations.

I liked schoolwork and projects, I just never wanted to stand at the front of a class and tell others about my wondrous intellectual discoveries and achievements… I froze in my worry.

• I worried about whether Dale Curry liked me in Grade 1 the way I liked her (I’m pretty sure she did, I was extremely charming then!).

I liked girls a lot but throughout my teen years never had the male swagger that allowed me to ask someone out on a date until I was 110% sure I would get a big YES!

• I worried about whether all my newspaper customers would pay me and I’d have the money together to send off to the Hamilton Spectator office on time.

I was never arrested for late payments, so I’m certain my childhood credit rating was stellar.

These were lowercase worries, but inside the head of a youngster they felt the same as the much larger, more consequential worries that came along in later life.

This is the thing about worry. Large or small, when it happens inside your own head, they all FEEL HUGE.

It’s akin to the axiom about how surgeries are minor except the ones being done to ourselves.

After I bought my first car (1967 Rambler American) at 17, I constantly worried that it would break down and where would I get the money for repairs.

This really was a bona fide situation for worry. I was living on the razor’s edge money-wise in my late teen years.

Later, as a young adult and professional medical laboratory technologist, I would sometimes lay awake in bed after being called in to work during the night to perform a blood cross-match. What if my bleary eyes made a mistake, even a little one?

A bleeding patient in need of an emergency blood transfusion called for a rapid lab response where a very minor error on my part could result in doing far more damage to the patient than their car accident or GI bleed had already created.

I worried that I would arrive for my morning hospital shift to the news that “my” overnight patient had died from a botched crossmatch.

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Telling me or anyone not to worry is a fool’s game and a total aggravation. No one wants to be told this. Worry turns to fury at the sound of these words.

Life has a rhythm and flow… worrying joins in the song of life for better or worse… usually a tsunami of worry is thankfully followed by a quiescent period of restoring calm.

There are lots of means of coping with our worries that I won’t go into here.

The internet (and greater experts than myself, like Jim Ferguson) will direct you to a myriad of possible solutions … however, one salve I will add is one of my favourite maxims that covers a great deal of ground…

THIS TOO SHALL PASS

… every worry I’ve ever experienced in life has subsided or succumbed to these 4 simple words…

Thanks for hanging with me for these past 10 years… I appreciate it- and you– more than you know.